Another helpful post from proudcuckoldzealot. When I reflect on my own journey to accepting my loser status and becoming Cucklightened, I can see all of these stages very clearly. I'm definitely in stage 5+1...

The Five + 1 Stages of Cuckxeity - Road to Cucklightenment

Cuckxiety (noun): a portmanteau of cuckold and anxiety; defines a state of existence where a betamale has a hard time accepting his role in society.

Most betabois who haven’t been properly initiated in the lifestyle and haven’t achieved cucklightenment have to go through five + 1 stages:

1. Denial

At this initial stage, a betaboi denies his beta status. He believes in equality of all men, is intimidated by female promiscuity, has ‘nice guy’ traits and thinks he will find a partner someday with whom he can have a monogamous relationship.

2. Anger

At this stage, a betaboi becomes angry at the world, alpha males and women. His total lack of sexual opportunity makes him sympathetic to misogynist ideas and he sometimes starts devolving into inceldom. He also starts hating himself for being inadequate, for jacking off to porn all the time and for being a pathetic loser.

3. Bargaining

At this stage, the beta starts soothing his anger and he starts conceding to have some sort of sexual opportunity. He starts pampering women so he can have some 'fun’. If he has money, he starts going to prostitutes. He relaxes his dating requirements, he doesn’t have problem with a woman’s sexual history and he assumes a submissive role. The more desperate he gets, the more he bargains away.

4. Depression

At this stage, still lacking sexual opportunity, the betaboi becomes depressed. Even though he has sacrificed so much, he still has a hard time maintaining a relationship or even starting one. He slowly starts accepting his weakness and he takes refuge in porn. Porn starts melting his brain, it makes him more dependent and brainwashes him into the wonderful world of interracial and cuckolding. The more porn he consumes, the more psychologically conditioned he gets to accepting reality. His hate for alpha males and women go away as he starts realizing he can never be like them.

5. Acceptance

This is a great stage. At this stage, the betaboi accepts his destiny. He starts respecting women and alpha males and starts believing in the sexual hierarchy. He becomes more submissive and becomes open to cuckold relationships as he knows that is the only thing he’s good for. He starts seeking dommes who can train him further and he starts grooming himself into a truly submissive cuck.

5 + 1: Cucklightenment

This is the final stage. At this stage, the betaboi fully accepts his position in society. He doesn’t want any sex anymore as he realizes he’s not worthy of it. He realizes his purpose and starts devoting his life to his superior. He limits his needs and focuses his entire energy on serving his cuckodress (or dommes) and alpha males. He goes pussyfree and makes a commitment to chastity. And he becomes truly free of all cuckxiety and takes pride and joy in his new outlook.

If you are a betaboi in one of these early stages, feel free to contact me for advice and encouragement. I want you to reach Cucklightenment as it’ll change your life for the better. Trust me.

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